It takes one to know one
There is some truth to this commonplace playground retort as well. Although often used in a derisive manner, it takes one to know one also implies a very positive and reaffirming message.
Have you ever envied someone, and wished you had some of the amazing skills that they possess? Perhaps it was the professional and authentic salesman who you felt had sold with persuasiveness but integrity. Maybe it was the determination of a sporting star, or the charisma and charm of a politician, the list goes on. It could even be as simple as the perceptive power of your best friend.
The skills that they have are not far from you. In fact, the very fact that you have identified their critical success factors suggests that you already have them internalised! Identifying strengths and qualities in others reflects something about you. It takes one to know one.
The next time you worry about how much you lack compared to others, simply look within yourself, and you'll find it.
Feel empowered when you notice the success of others. That success is also yours.
